Leave Me The Hell Alone


Ever had someone who is so pathetic, they won’t leave you alone? Ever know anyone that doesn’t let things go? They are not worth your time. I recently quit a job where the employer and manager had bipolar tendencies. They masked it well, but when it was revealed, I wasn’t going to stay there any longer than I have to. They’re both pretty pathetic and need to leave me the hell alone.

My husband got a call from them this past week. They knew perfectly well who he was, but they said that it was time for his teeth cleaning appointment. That was ridiculous. Why would he go there to get his teeth cleaned if I don’t work there anymore? He called them back to tell them that he wasn’t going there anymore. 

Acting dumb, the manager asked “Why?” He replied with “I’m going to go where my wife works.” As unprofessional and uneducated as she was, she giggled and said, “Okay, I will let the doctor know.” My husband could have not called back, but as pathetic as they are, they might keep on calling. How childish when this manager is over the hill in age. We’re not in high school anymore.

cowardNot only do they have bipolar tendencies, they have narcissistic tendencies. When I told the manager I was quitting, the doctor didn’t even have the guts to come up to me. He just walks by like a coward and lets the manager handle it. Obviously, he didn’t think he didn’t do anything wrong to cause me to quit. 

He thought he can bully me around because I didn’t talk. I don’t talk, because I don’t talk to people I don’t trust. Ever since I began working there, I just had a feeling in my gut that this person is someone I don’t trust. I was right. Ever have that feeling when you first meet someone and you know this person is not genuine?

When I told the manager I was quitting, she was mad and gave me an attitude. Went to talk to the doctor and then came back and was “acting nice” so that I would at least come to work one more day since she didn’t have anyone to cover for the next day. Why in the world would I put myself in that type of torture to be yelled at and humiliated in front of patients? Anyone in their right mind would not go back. I told her, “No, today is my last day.”

finishedWhen I left, the manager called me and left me a message acting fake nice when she was a total b….. with an attitude. She wanted to explain why they acted the way they did. I didn’t want to hear their nonsense excuse. Whatever it was, it has nothing to do with me. I said what I had to say and I was done. She needs to leave me the hell alone and get a life!

I have experienced TOO MANY bipolar employers in my life. At some point, you get tired of it and really think about what can you do to change this pattern? That is what I did. I have always wanted to work at home. I did some searching and started to build a foundation for an online business. If you would like to learn more, read my review of Wealthy Affiliate.

Know anyone that needs to leave you the hell alone? Please share your experience, comment, or questions below.






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  • Anh Nguyen

    I am lucky enough to have good employers who are understanding and consider me a friend, family member. That said, like you, I also crave to work on my own, to do the kind of work that creates the impact that I want, not for someone else’s goals and dreams.

    Wealthy Affiliate is my course of choice as well, I’ve been with the program for over a year and plan to do so for many years to come even when I’ve made a sustainable income online and quit my job because they have such a great community, and you can’t help but just want to give back to them. 🙂

    Thanks for sharing!


    • Sofia

      Life is like a box of chocolates. You just never know what you’re going to get with the employers. We all have a choice in our life decisions. It’s a matter of making a decision and sticking to it. So far, I am sticking to it. It feels great to work on my own. No stress and no headaches. I can’t wait to be able to do this full time.


  • Jonathan

    Hey Sofia

    What would keep you hanging around your original employment? That is the big question that come to my mind after reading your article. Some time its insecurity fear of the unknown. If I leave this job, will I get a better source of income than from my job.

    I can not leave my job until I prove my new opportunity would work well. Many people treat work from home opportunities with negative attitude.

    Thank you from directing me to Wealthy Affiliate review. I can now clearly see that it works. It is possible to work from home. But I am not quitting my job yet. lOl only until I start putting dollars in my pocket.

    • Sofia

      Hi Jonathan,

      This past employer put on an act for almost a year. It wasn’t until the last day I worked there was when his and her true colors started to really show. As long as they didn’t treat me badly, I continued to work there. The first and last time they treated me badly, I quit. I wasn’t going to let that continue and I definitely let them know.


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