Working with a Narcissist

bullyHave you ever worked with someone who was a bully, a “know-it-all?” Unfortunately, there is always one person at work, school or home that is a narcissist. 

What is a Narcissistic Personality Disorder?

According to Wikipedia:

“A narcissistic personality disorder is a long-term pattern of abnormal behavior followed by exaggerated feelings of self-importance, an excessive need for admiration, and a lack of understanding of others’ feelings.”

Can it be cured?

No, but treatment can help.

How do you know if you have the disorder?

Must be medically diagnosed by a medical professional.

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What causes this disorder?

Unknown, genetic, or environmental

What are signs of a narcissistic personality disorder?

-Excessive need for admiration

-Inability to handle criticism

-Sense of entitlement

-I’m right. You’re wrong

-Get’s angry to get her way

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How to avoid a narcissist?

If you have to be in the same environment, then you want to stay as far away from them as possible. These people are toxic and are not worth being in your life. 

If your family member is one, I can’t tell you what to do, but my mom is one. I made the decision to cut her out of my life. Being around people like that will often rub off on you. It is like someone who is a bad influence that rubs off on you when you hang out with them a lot. 

Although I can’t avoid the narcissist at work, I only talk to her if it is necessary. Unfortunately, I have to work right next to her so I have to hear her loud bragging of herself all day long. It is pretty annoying.

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I have made the decision if it is not mandatory, I will not participate in any outings. Why should I have to endure that on my own time? I don’t care what they think about me. It’s my way of staying sane and keeping the peace. Although, most days I want to tell her off.

I have to remind myself to be the better person. Usually, I notice people who are narcissist are very negative people and are not happy with themselves. What these people do to us is wrong and karma will get them if it hasn’t already. We have to stay positive, remind ourselves what we are grateful for and keep on working at our goal.

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I worry that my mom’s narcissistic disorder may be passed on to me, but when I look at the signs, I don’t fall into those signs. I am the direct opposite of those signs above. Phew! I never want to become like her, so I work really hard to never be like her. So far, so good. I am nothing like her. 

One goal I am working on is to be able to work online full time. In order to do this, I needed to build a website. I had no idea how to do that until I stumbled across Wealthy Affiliate. This program has taught me a lot. Although I can’t work online as much as I want, I still try to fit in time whenever I can. This is my way out to eventually get rid of having to be around a narcissist.

How do you deal with a narcissist? Are you friends with one? Please share your experience, comments or questions below.

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How to Use a Screen Shot

A screen shot is an application you use to capture a picture on your computer screen. There are programs or features that you can use on your computer that have already been installed or you can download yourself. Many of the applications can be downloaded for free. So, which one do you choose if there are so many? I have only worked with Windows and Chrome, so I will be discussing what I have used.

Windows

Jing

You can download for free at their website. There are more editing features (arrow, text, frame, highlight and tool color) and the images are much clearer than the Snipping Tool.

Snipping Tool

You can find this tool in your “Accessories” folder already installed into your computer. There isn’t many editing features, but if you are only capturing images and don’t need to edit much, then this may work for you. I didn’t find the detail of the images very clear.

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Chrome

Already installed into the computer

You can capture a picture by pressing “ctrl”+ “switch to the next tab or window(F5)”

You can capture a specific area on your screen by pressing “ctrl”+ “shift” + “switch to the next tab or window(F5)”

There isn’t much editing features in this application.

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You can download this application 

1.Click on your “launcher” (The circle image on the lower left corner of your screen)

2.Click on “Web Store,” which you will be redirected to this page below

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3.Under the Chrome Web Store, there’s an area “Search the store.” You will type in “Awesome Screenshot.” 

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4. You will click on the blue tab with “+Add to Chrome” and then the application will be installed. The image above doesn’t show the blue tab, because I already added it to Chrome.

Why would you use a screen shot?

If you need to take a picture for your work, such as for your websites, reports, business, etc. The worst thing you can do is to write content and do not include any images. Without any images, your reader gets bored and they won’t finish reading what you wrote. 

A lot of people like to see images. It keeps them interested and not bored, so put some nice, eye-catching images in your content. I know I get bored when I don’t see many images in what I am reading. The first thing I do is scroll the whole page and if there isn’t any images present, I leave the page. You don’t want your readers to run away. You want them to come back.

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How do you take a screen shot?

If you are using Jing, you click and hold on the left mouse button. Then, you will drag how much of the image you want. Once you like the size, release the left button and follow the save instructions and that’s how you capture an image.

If you are using Awesome Screenshot, you click on the icon for Awesome Screenshot, then a screen will show up. You will select “capture desktop” and select the middle image. Then you will select the “crop” editing feature. You will click and hold on the left mouse button.

Then, you will drag how much of the image you want and release the button when you are done and use any other editing features you want. When you are done, click on “Done” on the upper right corner. Then, you will name the picture to be saved.

If you mouse across the editing icons on Jing or Awesome Screenshot, it will show up in text what the editing feature is, such as “resize” or “crop.” Of all the different screenshot applications, Awesome Screenshot had the most editing features.

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Final thoughts

When I first started taking screen shots of images, I had no idea there were applications like these. Someone had recommended it to me, since I was placing images I took from a camera and loading it onto my webpage. They were not pretty, that was for sure.

I rarely use Jing now, because my computer has been really slow and it is placed in the wrong part of the house for WiFi. So, I mostly work on my laptop which is a Chromebook.

If I had to rate which application was the best, I would consider Jing the best for having the sharpest image. However, Jing is only compatible with Windows or Mac, so I can’t use it on my laptop.

Awesome screenshot has a lot of editing features, so I like that. It is easy to use and not hard to learn how to use it. Once you use it enough, it’s not complicated to use at all. With anything, we have to get used to it before it becomes easy to use. Practice makes perfect.

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I hope I was able to help you with a few things. Which screen shot application do you use? Please share your experience, questions or comments below.

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How to Make Money as an Affiliate for Aweber

 

Are you looking for a recurring income program? Well, Aweber is one of them. What makes Aweber different from other affiliate programs? Their active and excellent customer support team that sends you educational tips on how to earn an income promoting Aweber. Read my review of Aweber if you want to learn more about it.

Does it cost any money to become an affiliate with Aweber?

No, it doesn’t cost you money to become an affiliate with Aweber. If an affiliate program is asking you to pay something, be wary because you should NEVER have to pay to become an affiliate member.

How do I promote Aweber as an affiliate?

-Place Aweber banner in your sidebar of your website

-Embed your affiliate link into your website content

-Place in your social media

-Place in your email marketing

Do you know how to do any of those listed above?

It is okay if you don’t. Wealthy Affiliate is an online program that helps you build your foundation for an online business. You can sign up as a starter member at no charge or credit card information, which will allow you to have access to the first course, which contains 10 lessons.

How much can I earn as an affiliate with Aweber? 

Aweber has a 30% recurring commission per referral that signs up for a package.

What tools does Aweber provide for affiliates?

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Can you replace your income by being an affiliate with Aweber?

Yes, BUT it takes time. Don’t quit your real job until you are earning a full time income. Your earning reflects how much work you put into it. Below, is an example of 1 referral.

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Example: If you get 50 referrals to sign up at $19.00/month, you will earn $1710.00/6months or $3420.00/12 months.

Example: If you get referrals to sign up at $149.00/month, you will earn $13410.00/6 months or $26820.00/12 months.

Are you ready to sign up?

1.Go to the upper right and click on “Menu.”

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2.In the new screen, click on “Affiliate Program.”

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3.In the new screen, click on the green box that has “Get Started as an Affiliate.”

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4.You will fill out the form with your contact information, preferred password and your affiliate ID will be provided in the form you fill out.

5.You should be able to login to your account. You will place your affiliate ID and password to login.

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6.You will be redirected to this page, which shows your affiliate link you will use to embed into your content website.

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7.If you scroll down the same page, there are many educational and promotional tools for you to use to help and support you in your journey to making money as an affiliate.

Final thoughts

Whenever you begin a new affiliate program, it takes TIME before you start seeing results. Don’t be impatient even though it’s hard not to be. Keep building on your business, keep adding content and implementing your affiliate links into your content. When your audience comes to your website, they don’t look at all your posts. They may only look at one or two. If you don’t have your affiliate links promoting your affiliate programs, then you are less likely to get referrals or sales. That is my tip to you!

Are you an affiliate for Aweber? Please share your experience, questions or comments below.

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How to Become an Affiliate for Jaaxy?

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Do you want to make money by referring people to join Jaaxy? Read my review to learn more about Jaaxy. You are probably wondering how do you refer people to Jaaxy? Since technology has been advancing, you don’t have to bother your family or friends about it. I will be covering it in a minute, but if you want to do affiliate marketing with Jaaxy, you need to sign up at Jaaxy.

Once you create an account, you should be redirected to the home page below. You will “click” on “Affiliate Program.” 

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Then, you should be redirected to this page below. The first line shows your affiliate link where you can embed into your website or widget.

jaaxy-affiliate-link

Does it cost any money to become an affiliate with Jaaxy?

No, it does not.

How do I promote Jaaxy as an affiliate?

When you sign up as a Starter Member at Wealthy Affiliate at NO CHARGE, there is training available to get you started in learning the ways to promote Wealthy Affiliate, so you will do the same for Jaaxy. Read my review to learn more about Wealthy Affiliate.

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There is also a video training to show you how the affiliate program works for Jaaxy. You can click on “Training” at the top of the page, which redirects you to this page. Then, you will scroll down to The Affiliate Program Walkthrough and play the video.

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How much can I earn as an affiliate with Jaaxy?

When you get referrals who sign up for the program as  Pro member, you can earn a recurring $8.00/month or $80.00/year. If you get a referral who signs up for Enterprise member, you can earn a recurring $20.00/month or $200.00/year.

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Can you replace your income by being an affiliate with Jaaxy?

Yes, BUT it takes time. Don’t quit your real job until you are earning a full time income! Your earnings will reflect how much work you put into it. Below is a calculation scenario of possible monthly incomes if you get a certain number of referrals per day , with a 12% upgrade to Pro or Enterprise members during a 4 or 6 month average.

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There are 7 courses in the Affiliate Bootcamp Training at Wealthy Affiliate. If you are a starter member, you will have access to ONLY Course 1 until you upgrade to  Premium Member at Wealthy Affiliate. However, there are 10 lessons in Course 1, so you should get enough information so you can get to where you need to be able to promote Jaaxy as an affiliate.

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As a starter member at Wealthy Affiliate, you will learn a lot just in the Course 1 with 10 lessons. Here is how the course will benefit you and what you will learn below.

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Do you have a website? Don’t worry, building your own website isn’t as hard as it was in the past. Watch this video where you can build a website in 30 seconds.

Don’t know how to customize your website once it’s built? That’s okay. At Wealthy Affiliate, you can get two free websites as a starter member and learn how to build the foundation of your website. Wealthy Affiliate will also teach you how to get target audience/visitors to your website and how to get your posts ranked on the first page of the search results.

Jaaxy is a program made by the same owners at Wealthy Affiliate, so you can access Jaaxy in the Wealthy Affiliate platform.

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Once you have a website, you can be an affiliate for different programs. When you promote their program through your website and someone makes a purchase, you get a commission. 

So that is how you become an affiliate for Jaaxy. Are you an affiliate with Jaaxy? Please share your experience, comments or questions below.

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How to Become an Affiliate with Wealthy Affiliate?

Do you want to make money by referring people to join Wealthy Affiliate? You are probably wondering how do you refer people to Wealthy Affiliate? Since technology has been advancing, you don’t have to bother your family or friends about it. I will be covering it in a minute, but if you want to be an affiliate with Wealthy Affiliate, you need to sign up as a Starter Member at Wealthy Affiliate.

Once you create an account, you should be redirected to the home page. You will scroll down until, you see “Affiliate Program” and then you will click “$ WA Affiliate Program.”

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Then, you should be redirected to this page below. The first line shows your affiliate link where you can embed into your website or widget.

affiliate-link

 

Does it cost any money to become an affiliate with Wealthy Affiliate?

No, it does not.

How do I promote Wealthy Affiliate as an affiliate?

When you sign up as a Starter Member at Wealthy Affiliate, there is training available to get you started in learning the ways to promote Wealthy Affiliate.

wa-affiliate-training

How much can I earn as an affiliate with Wealthy Affiliate?

When you get referrals who complete their account set up, you can earn credits per referral, which equals to .50. This can be exchanged for money once you get 40 credits. For example, if you get 100 referrals who complete their account set up, 100X.50= $50.00.

As a starter member at Wealthy Affiliate, you can earn $4.00 per referral who upgrades to Premium Member, then $11.75 monthly or $87.50 yearly commissions.

If you are an affiliate member that upgraded to become a premium member at Wealthy Affiliate, you can earn $8.00 per referral who upgrades to Premium Member the first month $19.00 special offer, then $23.50 monthly or $175 yearly commissions.

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Can you replace your income by being an affiliate with Wealthy Affiliate?

Yes, but it takes time. Don’t quit your job until you are earning a full-time income! Your earnings will reflect how much work you put into it. Below is a calculation scenario of possible monthly incomes if you get a certain number of referrals per day , with a 12% upgrade to Premium members during a 4 or 6 month average.

possible-earnings

There are 7 courses in the Affiliate Bootcamp Training. If you are a starter member, you will have access to ONLY Course 1 until you upgrade to  Premium Member at Wealthy Affiliate. However, there are 10 lessons in Course 1, so you should get enough information so you can get to where you need to be able to promote Wealthy Affiliate as an affiliate.

Course-1-lessons

As a starter member, you will learn a lot just in the Course 1 with 10 lessons. Here is how the course will benefit you and what you will learn below.

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As a Premium Member, you will learn even more. There are 7 courses, 10 lessons each course, so that is a total of 70 lessons.

If you are tight on money, that’s okay. At Wealthy Affiliate, you can get two free websites as a starter member and start building the foundation of your website. As your website matures, google will trust it more and as you continue to build relevant content, you will gradually increase your target audience.

More target audience visiting your website means more chances of referrals or sales. I hope I was able to help you in some way. If you would like to become an affiliate with Wealthy Affiliate, sign up as a starter member for free and no credit card required by clicking the image below.

Are you an affiliate with Wealthy Affiliate? Please share your experience, comments or questions below.

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